tanking will make you bitter about other players,i tanked since 2002 on alot of mmos, players will just blame you from everything like dying to a mob that they pulled or focusing on the wrong mob,standing in front of a boss even when it has a cleave, poping all burst cds before the tank has a chance to get aggro in a fight,etc. i have made some tanking mistakes and i will say my bad and will do better. but the constent crap you get from players over the couple years i just giving a **** what they think and continue to tank i know how, look up fights and position the boss etc. because at the end of the day im the tank and lead you go where i go end of story. im also more like to jump in front of a healer to shield them than dps... cant live in my healer bites the dust