Warrior has been my main for 2 months now, and yes, i'm a lowbie and a newbie, but i've had experiences with tanking in other MMOs. So i have a bit of knowledge on the various types of players you run across. My gold rules are this:

1. You pull it, you own it until you kill "it" or "it" kills you
2. As a tank, i set the pace for the dungeon
3. If you don't like it, no one is stopping you from leaving
4. If you want to pull ahead of what i'm currently holding aggro on, then see rule #1

Most people are nice and willing to work and pay attention, as to not have issues with my rules and i don't even have to say what my rules are. I figure its common sense.