Thanks, this is all solid advice. I'll continue trying the things that were suggested.

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I have no idea what Diabolos is like but maybe a bigger server is actually the answer for you.
It's strange because I think Diabolos is a fairly big server, since I've tried to get irl friends to join and the server was often full. Honestly it may be because I mostly can play at night.

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On Cactuar, we have everything from third coil learnings/clears, Primal focus parties, pony farms, T5, EX farming, and SCoB farm parties.
That would be nice if my FC had that kind of stuff, but I think we only have one static and it's full. I don't think I want to leave at this point but I might try bringing it back up with my FC leader. I know that kind of thing is difficult to put together though, especially with the lack of interest within the group.