Heya Farseer,
Orange Pekoe is LGBT friendly and is very fun and awfully helpful. Two of us actually recently returned to the server just to rejoin the FC after server transferring for other reasons (I went to Balmung for RP but came back). Everyone is very willing to help, and just last night we did a 'movie night' for two members, where we get a full FC party and run Castrum and Praetorium letting them watch all the cutscenes. So, just a thought if you feel like looking us up ^_^v