Good one OP, Sir.

"There's always a polite way to get your point across" someone once said and yes, if you just have to be catty/snarky/mean to someone you can still do it in a polite way.... if you've got the wit for it (see what I did there? )

Also, very important to know when not to engage and identify instigators but, I suppose that comes with mileage (as in, the older I get - the less effect drama and other people's tempers have on me).

Lastly, relax and enjoy life :3