A Lesson in Tactfulness

[zar]

Those tactful responses SUCK!!! I-I mean.. they are not my style, but I could see why they're used!

[Teslo]

I have tact. I'm just a smartass. The problem with this is that sarcasm and my strange mix of deadpan and exaggeration humor doesn't translate well through text. Also I hate whiners and morons, of which the internet and MMO's are filled. Also I'm old and grumpy and don't give a $h** (But also don't want to get banned for language).

WAT DO NOW, WISE MAN!?

[HakuroDK]

I have tact. I'm just a smartass. The problem with this is that sarcasm and my strange mix of deadpan and exaggeration humor doesn't translate well through text. Also I hate whiners and morons, of which the internet and MMO's are filled. Also I'm old and grumpy and don't give a $h** (But also don't want to get banned for language).

WAT DO NOW, WISE MAN!?

I choose to respect your opinion, even though it clashes with my own, and point out that the only reason you perceive the internet and MMOs as being filled with whiners and morons is due to a general lack of empathy. Not from you, but from a large number of the internet's population.

But then my point still stands if "no one will punish (me) for not using tact"...something about the fact they can't, long as someone isn't so tactless that they defy forum rules of course.

And as far as flame wars, I determine who's worthy of help in a large part by seeing who reacts like that and who doesn't. And I won't lie, I get a good laugh out of those that prove themselves not worthy of the help. They're often quite comical.

It was never my intention to say you were wrong. I wasn't disagreeing with you, I was merely clarifying the meaning of the definition you provided.

You're allowed to do whatever you want, but there will be consequences for your actions, for the better or for the worse. Though that goes for everyone, including myself. Every action has a reaction. Every cause has an effect. Every choice has a consequence. That's scientific law. It's better to be aware of those consequences before choosing than to be aware after the choice.

[Teslo]

I choose to respect your opinion, even though it clashes with my own, and point out that the only reason you perceive the internet and MMOs as being filled with whiners and morons is due to a general lack of empathy. Not from you, but from a large number of the internet's population.

I would actually argue that it's less of a lack of empathy (Though this IS a contributing factor!) and more that the whiners and morons tend to be the vocal ones, so they're who we notice.

It is a nice thread, by the way. Good to have a positive topic to look at once in a while.

[Alistaire]

It was never my intention to say you were wrong. I wasn't disagreeing with you, I was merely clarifying the meaning of the definition you provided.

You're allowed to do whatever you want, but there will be consequences for your actions, for the better or for the worse. Though that goes for everyone, including myself. Every action has a reaction. Every cause has an effect. Every choice has a consequence. That's scientific law. It's better to be aware of those consequences before choosing than to be aware after the choice.

I see. And yeah, definitely. The consequences are, sometimes people don't accept the help that's given. It's just that I'm not concerned with that consequence if someone's not able to get over themselves and see the point in a post, even if (and especially when) it's a brutal one. If anything, the comedy that comes out of people reacting badly is a positive consequence.