Yeah, I have the money.
But lets see, 12ish dollars a month for the sub...just from me=$144 a year.
In addition to that, my husband also plays (and since we're talking player bonding...and bonding takes 2, this is true of ANYONE consuming this specific content), so there's another 144 a year.... so now we're up to $288 a year, just to sub to the game.
Maybe, that's all we're willing to pay...when that same money could also be invested in other things...such as a long weekend camping trip, or 5 console games, or my Child's entire haul from Santa etc.
So yes, when you look at it as a monthly thing, it's not so bad....but when you consider that you pay every month...and we don't get new content every month this game starts to get pricy...quick. Furthermore, we're just one household....multiply out the 144/year x the amount of people playing and it doesn't take a genius to realize they are making enough to more than cover the development and staffing costs of this game.
But, here's the other thing to consider.
We all pay roughly $12 a month in subs. So buying lets say, the Odin mount...just a mount=2 months of game subs. Really? A Mount? I could be 1/2 way to buying a new console game for that....or take my child to the museum.
Now obviously, I didn't buy the mount. Because I think it's about 22 dollars overpriced for a pretend pixelated pony. And if others want to buy it...well, they can waste their money how ever they want.
But a pony isn't content.
A minion isn't content.
A wedding ceremony, albeit an 'upgraded package' starts being 'buying content'
And what's more disturbing, is if it's successful will it open the door to more content being treated in this manner?
Because first it was account services (fine), then a couple extra mounts/minions (little less fine but still /meh), now 'upgraded content package' (which if all it is is a mount+minion+ dress still /meh)
More on point: If a simple mount was 24 dollars, then a Mount+Minion+clothing (even if that's all the 'gold package' is), is likely closer to 40-50 dollars....that's the likely cost of the expansion.
...but SE also has a history of telling us one thing....and then drastically changing the plan. So no one trusts them to be upfront with everything.
When they sold the Thancred minion on the cash shop, everyone knew that was the only thing people were getting. And no one expects that 6 months from now, those that bought Thancred will get a special teleport or something. But the marriage thing is more vague. Since it has already been stated that some additional perks are being planned for Player Bonding...it is reasonable to question 'will those perks be in the 'standard' plan or only upgraded versions' If I only do the standard...and if those options are later added only to the 'cash shop' versions, can I upgrade if I desire or am I stuck?
Basically, this time around, they aren't selling something as cut and dry as a minion/mount or player service such as a world transfer. As 'Player Bonding' is actual playable content...there are questions as to how this all actually will play out/implications down the road if additional perks/content is added to this content etc. Also, everything else sold on the Mog Station up until this point was as simple as: buy it>log in>check Mog Mail> use item. This package, by its very nature is more complicated in that. Do both players have to buy it or one? Do you have to tell SE whom you're sharing it with? Do you need their acct info to do so? How long do I have to wait for my package/ceremony if I pay? What happens if we decide not to go through with the ceremony...do we keep the items? If I have multiple characters on my account do the items apply to all my characters? (as have some Mog Purchases in the past), or do I have to pick a specific one?
It's just a much more complicated mess than 'Here is a cute Thancred, for 3 dollars you can have him' And typically, the more complicated something is...the more likely SE is to overlook key details or screw it up. Yet another reason, many simply don't trust them.