Not everybody who disagrees with you is out there to attack you, Tupsi, you can say people attack you when you get called XI fanboy, but you like to throw that word everytime someone disagrees with you.

The balance of DoL and Battle classes are not the same, they are not balanced in the same way and I still don't get where are you getting that, not to mention a change like this wouldn't give DoL an unfair advantage over Battle classes, because DoL aren't meant to battle in the first place.

Getting interrupted by a mob you aggroed is perfectly okay, it's part of the punishment for gathering in a high level area without using the tool provided (stealth).

Getting griefed by someone dragging a mob to you while you're stealthed and losing the unspoiled node or mooch is not okay, it's not part of the DoL balance and thats why it's considered griefing.