I just recently got back from an abandoned run because a tank wouldn't continue. Why? Because apparently we're wiping on mobs because I'm not "keeping up 3 dots" on my ninja who literally just hit 46 earlier in the dungeon (this is happening during the ledge section with the frogs) and only just unlocked Shadow Fang.
He opens with "its okay even this pug ninja sight for everything" in response to the healer dropping off of the ledge. During the last pull I had been using Doton, Katon, and Death Blossom due to there literally being 6 enemies. I had also kept up Mutilate on the main target due to it's fast application and long duration. He then mocks me with "0 dps ninja is op" before ultimately refusing to go any further because we died a total of 2 times.
I'll admit that like anyone else leveling up a Ninja, I'm pretty new to the class. Hell, it's been out for 2 weeks. excluding Doton though, I do believe I only have 2 Dots, aka Damage over time applications. Unless he's talking about Dancing Edge, which doesn't help for large pulls, but it really isn't essential unless it's the boss or if an enemy is using a healing effect. I literally didn't have Shadow Fang in the right place since we were mid-dungeon, so I felt there should be no real reason why it would have to be used this run.
At the end of the argument when I called him out that Ninjas only have 2 actual Dots and that I had only just gotten Shadow Fang, he threw a fit and said that he wouldn't continue until either him or me had been kicked. With queues as long as they are right now with dps, he's literally condemning the group if they kick him, but it would be vote kick abuse if they chose to kick me. Instead they used the Abandon Duty function, which of course went through.
I am not a new player by any means, and I find it funny that after looking at his character sheet that he hasn't gotten his ninja past "equip this weapon." How does he have any authority to tell me how to play my class when he has absolutely no experience in how it plays?