When is it OK to say, "It's Not OK"

[Vespar]

Hey guys, I would just like to chime in here.

Please everyone, just take a step back for a second and allow me to put my two cents about my original post.

My original post was more about when would it be an acceptable situation to tell another player that maybe this isn't or they aren't going to succeed in the event, possibly to have that someone bow out rather than get kicked. The way I see it, telling someone anything similar to my prior comment would discourage anyone from feeling properly treated in the game, which would cause some players to regress or maybe quit the game.

The bashing that occurs is crazy enough that if I was on the other end taking the bashing I would be really upset. There has been players that have raged so bad from taking abuse that they quit the game to only come back a few days later. That's pretty extreme but understandable when someone gets their feelings hurt.

I hear your point, but There's a flip side to this that just comes with human nature. Most people don't like hearing that they aren't up to snuff that's true, but a good chunk of those people, even if told in the nicest way possible, will feel hurt by such comments and after enough times of failing at a run or being told they aren't up to snuff (whether its that players' fault or not) that person will eventually just lie down beaten and give up.

Since experiencing players negativity (even if its not directly at me) I have come to the point where I will just wait until the content to be become easy enough to beat by the majority purely because I can't stand the negativity. I am not bad at my job by any means, and that sucks because I know I'm not a bad player, and I can win many fights with a little practice. It just comes down to at the end of the day, how much negativity or abuse I can handle from others. And Im sorry to say Ive long since hit my limit for it.
Coil could be the coolest story on the planet, but until the negativity on inexperienced players dies down I wont even try to finish turns 6-13.