It's not stealing if you give them access to it.

There are ways to set levels.
My wife and I just joined a new FC and we asked if they had a rank to set us too until we found out if we where a good fit or not. It seems to be working out well, But I'm not going to ask for access if they feel I need or should have access I will take it.


The other option is to micro manage and let everyone see everything but need to ask if they want something.