I don't have issues in the hard modes or even normal with keeping aggro with my Warrior. I got back into playing with the paladin and it is quite stressful keeping a decent aggro bar. Toto was the worst I saw so far. I'm hoping that when I can get the third aggro skill this can be alleviated.

It's really frustrating when a ninja takes aggro and I provoke shield log and nothing happens. I then proceed to use FB>SB and have a tug of war until the add dies. I do use flash twice in each group encounter. Should I rotate my attacks to it hit each add while the group focuses on one target at a time?

Marking has controlled it a bit, but I cant stop using FB>SB for dots like fracture or other passive skills for risk of getting aggro taken. Should I just let the ninja have it and get beat up or tell them to slow down. The idea of asking someone to slow down makes me feel like I'm not doing my job though. Any tips paladin players can give would be very much appreciated.