I simply posted that as a very obvious counter to being accused I got carried to where I am. I could have posted that I'm one of 8 people on the server with a Louisoix minion too, but I'm not sure everyone knows where that's from.
My argument is that if you haven't yet cleared content you shouldn't be joining farm parties. If you want to clear content bad enough, and your group is holding you back, then you have to choose between one or the other. A driven player will find a way to clear.
I spent over 30hrs in 2.0 joining and forming shout parties to challenge T5. Eventually, by networking with other players who did well, I cleared it in a pug. Then I built my own static, with 7 other people who had no clear yet, spent a week training them and then I had a static capable of clearing T5. So no, I don't need your lecture; I've been there before. I never expect more of someone else that I cannot do or have not done myself.
This is why linkshells exist. And why you want to keep networking with players, and playing with a group to progress together. The stuff that takes weeks to learn is where you slap on the 'multiple previous clears only' when you just want to farm. The only reason I bring in the past escapades of people arguing against me is because you don't seem to understand the time investment involved to get to the point where you can reliably farm the harder content in the game, since you have not chosen to challenge it yet. I have no reason to take a gamble on someone when the party will fill in <10min anyway with people meeting my requirements.
I farmed every Coil1 drop, have over 80% of Coil2 drops, and every primal drop (minus some useless Ramuh/Shiva weapons). My experience in farming content far surpasses the sum total of the people who are arguing against me. I've tried different approaches and found what works best in building a party that can reliably kill the thing and get loot - which is the core purpose of a farm party.
If I want to do a thing and there's no relevant PF up, I make my own.