So I can look at this from all sides of the equation, so let's get this started!

As a tank: I like big pulls, and I cannot lie. (Okay, that was bad) However, that being said, I base my pulls off of who is in my party and how much life my healer has. I don't care about their mind stat -- base gear raises life. If they've got at least 4500 HP, I'll do just fine with a pretty decent pull. If I have a BLM in my party, you can bet I'll be pushing my healer to their limits. But the problem with this is that it wipes out the healer's MP, especially if they're a WHM. So I wait. This is apparently something rare enough that brings me to...