Two stories.

1. Quarn HM. Had a BRD and a BLM to go along with a WHM. I asked "big pulls?" Heals said yes. So I pull everything to the locked door.I swear to you if that door wasn't there I would have kept going. Mobs got melted as you'd expect. In Quarn HM, the doors suck and slow us down.

2. Snowcloak. I was on BLM this time. NIN, SCH and PLD in the group. PLD says nothing and decided to run and gather everything to the first door, no protect, SS, nothing. We all follow like sillies, cause I know what is gonna happen, and reach the door. I start on my rotation and bam he is dead. Next is the NIN, at this point I am packing up shop and sprinting coz I am next. We all die. Tank says, heals and dps sukk. My only response to that, which the rest of teh group understood was; apparently so. waited teh 15 and vote kicked.

Some have the expectation others don't, as a tank be mindful of who is in your group. Pull small them work from there. If they can handle it get moar!!