DF Lockout needs to be adjusted/looked at/reviewed

[IfritReborn]

Prime example. Garuda bonus window is up.
Someone has a PF group up for Garuda.
Couple of us join but it's not a full party. Party leader closes PF and ques group up.
Party leader receives a tell, he invites the person into the group.

Party makeup has changed. Your registration is withdrawn.

Why am I locked out of DF for 30 minutes?
I thought it was 3 strikes withdrawing when the que had popped! That's 30 minutes of the bonus window GONE! Through no fault of my own! How was this a good idea?

Clarification on what happened:
Let me put it more clearly since some ppl in this thread are incredibly vindictive and horrible human beings.

Party leader closed PF and qued us. He received a tell, he sent an invite to the person who I will refer to as person A who sent him the tell. Person A DID NOT accept the invite right away. The que had popped and it was only then that Person A accepted the invitation, forcing us to withdraw not of our own will and locking us out!

I deserve to be punished? Not only did I not know that the party leader received the tell and invited Person A, I had no idea Person A would accept the invitation so late, nor did I have any idea that the party leader may have already had strikes against him! Why must I even be worrying about this IN THE FIRST PLACE!

But lo and behold! I deserve to be punished for something out of my control.