Well not every instance is going to be a restroom break. But really what I'm saying is that its within the realm of reason if someone is having a particularly normal human schedule.
I always make sure I afk 'before' I queue. If I absolutely 'have' to afk after that I leave the queue cause I figure I'm gonna be gone awhile. I just don't see the problem with the new system. My Dps queue times aren't really all that long anyway.If it was a penalty for just one time withdrawal I would say it is too harsh, but THREE freaking times. THREE! How the hell do you miss it THREE times or make a mistake THREE times.where a lot of the blame seems to be on "Paying attention", when thats not always the case. Queue times suck right now for most DD queuing, even Roulette is sitting me at 21 to 30+ Minutes, and thats a considerable chunk of time. While I think this system is fine as is, because I haven't really encountered the lock-out yet, and I've missed a few pops because of running to the restroom, helping my grandma get to the car, replying to people on forums... so forth... so I think the system is fine.Even without the penalty, you'd think more dps would pay attention to when their dungeon pops, because with the queues the way they are now, it sucks having to requeue. Suck it up and pay attention next time.
Its just the people who act like leaving your computer while in queue is some baffling inconceivable notion... 3 times a day might be questionable but its not without the realm of reason. When it comes to things like restroom breaks and eating, theres a different mindset when it comes to being in a dungeon, or waiting on queue. If you're in a dungeon, most people will wait til its over unless its really urgent... when waiting for one, its not the same case as your time for getting a queue pop is not guaranteed to be within this hour.
Being closed minded and stubborn is more what I'm arguing against here... not the lockout, because I think the lockout is fine if they tweaked it to where it wasn't inflicted on people who make fully premade groups, since they're not hurting anyone when/if they withdraw. When you're in a queue thats at 80+ minutes, thats more than enough time to go from "not hungry" or "don't need to use the restroom" to "Need to go" and "need to eat". Again, its unlikely that will happen 3 times in one day, but Its not impossible.
AGAIN - totally okay with the current lockout for 3 withdraws.... I hated the fishing for an In-progress crap as much as the rest of you, I hated playing "Withdraw" roulette once I got my ding... I'm just not so ignorant of the fact life outside of XIV exists and devoting 30 to forever minutes of your time to unwavering stillness in front of your computer is a lot to ask. and yes, I've personally had queue times in the last couple days that lasted over 100 minutes. I missed one, but not the others.