It is worth mentioning that you can't please everyone as the tank. I can be waiting for another person to catch up before pulling mobs and have someone else tell me to "gogogo." Either way, someone gets annoyed.

Sometimes people want you to do a full dungeon run, and sometimes they want you to skip the extras. Sometimes players will get annoyed at you for explaining things to other party members who ask rather than just jumping in.

Most of the time, everybody seems to enjoy themselves and it goes smoothly. But tanking means that you will find yourself in positions where you are the bad guy, at least to somebody.