The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

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Simple version:
Speed run is fine, speed runners are NOT.
Elite players are fine, elitists are NOT.
Raiders are fine, clear sellers are NOT.

Somehow people have a hard time separating out the two. I do NOT know why that is.
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The reasoning is because it's not a fully formed set of statements.

All speed runners like to speed run, not all speed runs are done by speed runners.
All elitist players are elite (or supposed to be), not all elite players are elitist.
-this is the important one-
All clear sellers are raiders, not all raiders are clear sellers.

This is the fundamental misunderstanding you're omitting. There's also the, "not all clear sellers are heartless fiends who don't help other players randomly", which you have never once assumed existed. Don't paint the picture black and white when there are unused colours on the palette.