Quote Originally Posted by Dwill View Post
... Sometimes, they want time for themselves and that's the thing you're not getting.
I know this, because this is both the default and obvious fact. I didn't think I need acknowledge such baseline obvious fact.

Quote Originally Posted by Dwill View Post
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if someone doesn't want to help someone else no matter the reason, they are being exclusive and bad ....
If they can not or do not want to help, the least they can do is do nothing. That should be the easy default. The problem is, there are those who will deliberately choose to do less than nothing, that is when they are being "being exclusive and bad". The most obvious example are the 24/7 advertising from clear sellers who obviously has the time to sit their and spam adverts but will not help. They may be a minority but they sure are loud and unavoidable. Like wise there are others who make the effort to come here and tell people like the OP to shut up and quit whining, and then call them all sorts of names. Why put efforts to demoralize people already being frustrated? That is kicking people when they are down and that is not right.