The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

[NyarukoW]

.... Aka: show some initiative. Or stare at your empty party finder for the next 4 hrs...

And practical terms that means what exactly? People like the OP has tried many different things and have shown initiative more that a few times. Don't be dismissive of the effort that OP has put in.

You can put stuff on the PF, you can join other peoples PF assuming they don't put the "no newbies wanted" comment, or you can shout in Mor Dhona and get ignored just as much as on the PF. You can try convincing your FC to try some to commit time, but most of them are afraid of T5. Invite people to your LS, and get stuck waiting for tanks and healers on the PF together. What else you got in your bag of tricks for showing initiative? Showing initiative doesn't magically solve the networking problem when the people that have experience deliberate choose to exclude everyone else.

That is why I will continue to advocate for people to be more open and more accepting of the newer players. Don't give me the BS about how people are not trying or just want to be spoonfed. That is so far from the truth, when the majority of players are looking to clear stuff and carry their own weight. They just need the opportunity and practice time to go thru the reps and clear the stuff.

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Ghislain made a lot of other valid points, why don't you try to answer to those ?

I don't need to comment on captain obvious statements like not all raiders are clear sellers. Which I've said so myself. The rest is all stuff like that. Obvious and unhelpful for the OP.