The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

[NyarukoW]

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"Experienced players don't join/help my PF/groups because they would rather see me fail and sell me a win later."

But there is plenty of evidence of shamelessly proud clear sellers even in this tread.

To which my response is:
No, we you don't join because we you have better things to do.

Nobody is making any assumptions about your motives. Your simple point only applies to you. The fact of the matter is that you don't speak for everyone else. The clear sellers comes here to harass and taunt people like the OP and then spread misinformation and misdirection and doing anything and everything toe make an extra gil. If anything they are over-representing the raiders and giving that group a bad name. To which you don't help, because you gladly take the position of apathy, indifference, and nonchalance. Some of which would say you are "complicit by your silence" (as in not speaking out against them or actively doing things to disrupt them), but I wouldn't go that far. Since it is game, and you do not have to do what you don't want to. But I would encourage those that have the experience help those who are learning, instead of treating newbies and newer players with contempt and doing everything you can to avoid them but gladly taking their gil.

[Tiggy]

Nobody is making any assumptions about your motives. Your simple point only applies to you. The fact of the matter is that you don't speak for everyone else.

He simply echos the sentiment that myself and most of the people I do primals and coil with. There is a lot to do in the game. We are not obligated to help anyone just because you think we should. Our time is ours to do with as we see fit and you are in no way entitled to expect anything from anybody. I log in at night to have fun. Not to work a job where I have to be clear b***h for anyone and everyone even if I don't know them. Many people think like Izsha because it's our time you're trying to claim. Not yours.

While I've never been a part of a sold run I definitely understand where they come from. They put time and effort to learn these runs and their time is valuable to them after a hard day raising children or working in the real world. If they put a price on their time and someone is willing to pay it then it's non of your business what so ever. Stop trying to tell people how to play the game.

If you want wins cultivate a base of helpful friends. Put party finders up and have patience. Coming to this forum and complaining at the people who can win the fight because you perceive they aren't helping is the most entitled thing I've ever seen on these forums. They don't owe you a single thing what-so-ever.