The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

[Starblast]

Why do people keep promoting this idea of hardcore vs casual? Everyone always talks about how they are in fear of the cash shop being a sign of a free to play model, but in all truth waiting forever for que times for extreme primals (that are not fun) that you must complete to move forward or to spend hours forming a party only for people to leave cuz you don't beat the raid in 10 minutes and want to speed run it then have all the players yell at you is just going to make people end their subs and quit. The game will then not be making any money and thus have to resort to all of its new vanity content being cash shop items and move the game to a free to play model or drastic nerfs or changes to the game.

I think some of the self proclaimed "hardcore" players should be concerned for the whole of the player base and not just their little clique or FC of people.

[Granyala]

Why do people keep promoting this idea of hardcore vs casual?

The OP used the term "casual" in the correct sense as in "I cannot adhere to a raiding schedule because of an unpredictable real life".
THAT is the meaning behind "casual player" and not "casual" = "mouthbreathing bad player".

And the hard to swallow truth (for him) is simply: the Coil-raid is NOT designed for that type of player. >full stop<