The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

[Remilia_Nightfall]

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I am merely proposing a solution, which has worked quite well for me and other people I know, in multiple occasions and in multiple games. It's always the same story. Some people are willing to take matters into their hands, creating and managing communities - others just want things served on a platter. It's human nature, sadly.

The OP states that most FCs require 3 nights a week - well, I'm not on his server but I am part of a FC and a static that only raids 2 times a week, and we are on T10. Most of us have family and jobs. We are no "hardcore" by any stretch of imagination.

How could this happen? Because someone decided to put a bit of effort into it, decided to search and manage people with similar views of the game and similar mindset. Everyone can do that, it just requires initiative.

But yeah, lots of people keep hoping to clear Coil easily using PF or DF, only to go whine (yes, this is whining) on the forums, refusing to see that there ARE other solutions to this "problem" just because they are too troublesome for them, so it's best to ignore them and hoping that screaming enough will convince SE to barge in and help.

Call me however you want - cynical, lacking empathy or whatever - seems to me I am not the one insulting, here :/