I have been experiencing lag issues for nearly 2 weeks now. Let me give you the TLDR that points me to this being an issue on SE side.
Wife's account = no lag
My account = lag
Lag occurs:
-When I use my account on my computer
-When I use my account on my wife's computer
No Lag Occurs:
-When I use my wifes account on my computer
-When I use my wifes account on my wife's computer
So the under the same conditions, my account gets lag and her's doesn't. Also, when we play at the exact same time, no lag issues for my wife, non stop issues for me.
What's happening?
Basically the game is rubberbanding on me. Everything in the game will pause for various lengths of time and then quickly catch up to where every action happens at once and catches up to where it was supposed to be. I've also been getting 90k issues every say 15 minutes or so.
Note:The weird part about this is that my character does NOT pause, and I can continue taking actions without issues. Those actions DO get sent to the server and take place. So on my screen the enemies and other people are not moving, they are telling me on mumble they can see me moving and casting flash.
This appears to be a connection related issue on the "Receiving" side for the client (send for the server side). The client is sending data to the server properly, but the server is not sending it back properly for some reason.
Since no one will believe me...
Basic setup:
Both computers use wired connections to an Asus RT-N56U.
Here are the things I tried when I thought the issue was tied to my computer:
-Reset modem and router
-Plug the cable into a different port on router
-Replaced the network cable with a known good cable
-Updated drivers on network cards
-Ran tracert on both computers to Sargatanas server IP. Both routes identical and in fact my computer had lower ms times.
-Fresh install of Windows and FFXIV
-Bought a new network card
-Reseated every card/connection inside my computer
-Installed an older video card driver, just in case.
-Removed video card from computer and played with onboard video card.
-Disconnected all other drives except the SSD that has windows and ffxiv on it.
-Updated firmware on SSD
At this point I was stumped and the lag still occurred every time. Then someone suggested I just try logging in my account on my wife's computer (that had no lag issues). It lagged!. After saying "WTF?" we tried logging my wife's account into my computer and NO LAG!. Again "Wtf?".
So at this point, the only thing I can think of, is that there is an issue with my account directly. I saw another forum post with a guy who's getting 90k's and the same type of lag. Everyone is blaming the ISP, but I'm starting to wonder if he's got the same problem I do.