Quote Originally Posted by MaethusXion View Post
Just because a guy is gay, or in this case both marriage partners are men, doesn't mean that one/both is a crossdresser.
Crossdressing has nothing to do with sexuality.

Long story short, the devs aren't going to ignore the culture of Eorzea and integrity of the lore because of your feelings. I'm sorry you can't shoehorn everything about your private life into every video game.
They make the lore as they go and they change it all the time.