Well, this is going to suck when you're trying to ask one of your friends to join the instance after your tank/healer bailed. They'll try once, then give up. =/

Just this week, I was running Brayflox Normal for a friend. Our Healer left us after the third boss for... gods know what reason? And we were left without a healer for the remainder of the dungoun.

We most assuredly we were in the que. It said 'Finding members' at the top-right. Yet no matter how hard my freinds tried to join my que? They kept getting fresh/brand new ones, with the /in progress/ box checked.

Tell me ,how is this fair to them - if they try to que in progress - that they would get these non-progress ones while trying to help me and suffer a detrimental effect if they don't take the one they're not intending?

This is my only concern. I fear it hurts those of us with good linkshell networks of friends who need a replenishment. =/ Even more than the broken/faulty system we have now.