The thing is, you aren't just taking their time. The atma isn't exactly a casual pursuit. It's for the more hardcore or dedicated among us who want to spend that time. If someone offers to help or accepts, don't feel bad, it's because they WANT to help someone, they are not obligated to do so ^_^. If I had heard a cry for help, I would have come to help, despite not having that part myself, I still am trying to collect atma in the first place.