I think I were quite misunderstood.

About how I manage my fellow Members, it is an internal thing, but to let you at ease, everyone was prepared to lose their chamber as long as everyone was happy to move to the big Housing.

The thing I found odd, if that I were stopped in the land disposal process by the very trivial things, as removing a chocobo stable, and destroy private chambers.

I don't understand of what "abuse" are you talking of:
as the FC leader, I can right now kick you, your chocobo out the stable, and your room in a simple FC dismissal. Only remove a room an abuse? Destable your chocobo then, what abuse is?

Being able to just delete your room and make your chocobo out the stable, is a limited version of the full kicking out the FC and is no more abusable as the FC admin powers are.

If really you fear that a FC admin can remove room, but are OK with being able be kicked out (you AND your room), thats fine to me. If that the case, Let the land dismissal process do all things automatically, as removing furnitures, destroy the ones not recoverable, remove the chambers and the hall. I just need a warning, "hey! if you do this, this and that happens! are you ok?"

I am going to get the best land plot available in game: the hell! I am one millions times OK!