Apparently trying to help is being rude

[Shiwayari]

Hi, I'm the guy you crossed off in blue. I have to say you were clearly being rude to the BLM throughout the entire dungeon. You could have given him the advice he needed to hear in a more causal way, but instead you wanted to be an arrogant jerk about it. I have been in your situation countless times and I'd never tell another player to "switch class." I can't even believe you ran to the forums expecting everyone else to back you up. Please learn talk with other players or "switch to an solo rpg."

I am sorry you had to experience this, I have not worded what I said in a nice way. Also, I did definitely not "want" to be an arrogant jerk about it. I wanted to give him a suggestion how to do better, and he clearly said he did not want to do that. I then tried to suggest he play a different job not because he sucks but because if he keeps doing that he will most likely encounter more situations like that.
It was not meant to be "You are to stupid to play that job, play a different one", It was a response to his answer which was "I don't want to play this job the correct/better (call it how you want) way", and my respone was meant to mean "If you don't want to play it the correct way, you should try a different job, maybe that will be more fun, at it would also help you avoid situations like this".
I do not think that was a wrong suggestion, I do not think it was rude either. The wording was rude, apparently. I was trying to offer him a way to enjoy the game more. Why is that wrong?

I'm not trying to be rude to either of you. You both insulted me with clearly offensive words. Maybe it was my "fault" for speaking in a bad tone. Now you make this post, trying to tell me i was "trying to be an arrogant jerk". No, I was not. Now can we put this behind us and stop insulting?

You might wanna start with this then...

Different discussion, but I don't feel it contributes. Some can say "Hello" to me and then be the nicest person I ever met. They can also say "Hello" and then be the worst person I ever met. I doesn't give me even the slightest insight about the other person. The only thing that tells me is that there is a chance they have not yet run their 50000th dungeon run, and have not gotten very tired of saying "Hello" every single time yet.
Or maybe a different reason.

Congratulations for the worst post in here, that is rude if anything, thank you for trying to make me feel bad. If you were trying to be funny, I'm sorry but you failed.

Others are actually contributing to the discussion.