Quote Originally Posted by Shiwayari View Post
...don't insult me because you thought I was being rude, when that wasn't my intention.
Sorry to break it to you, but ultimately the responsibility is on you. Unless they asked, or accepted your offer, for advice, you had no right to give it. That, in and of itself, was very rude, despite your "intentions." You aren't given a free pass to speak however you like just because you had good "intentions."

If you don't want to be considered rude, don't be rude! In that conversation you posted, you were rude. That was the point listed on the title of your thread. That is the point you brought up. Yes, the other BLM was playing poorly, and yes, he passed up an opportunity to improve. But that wasn't the point you opened with. If you wanted to discuss people's inability to improve, then post that as your main concern.

Again, learn to communicate in written form.