Hey this sounds exactly like my LS I just made (Especially the part about just not being a dick). I am not sure how big yours is but mine is getting to be a pretty decent size. Would you like to do a collaboration or something? So that maybe if 4 from your LS and 4 from mine needed something that was the same, so on an do forth we could set something up rather than reverting to party finder?
Anyways it's just a proposition! Either way good luck with your LS I think it'll help a lot of people out.