How to Contact a Difficult to Reach Player?

[Seif]

Well that doesn't sound like a fun FC :/

I'm kinda against this high level of hierarchy in FCs anyway. Who pays a sub to BE a sub?

[BLaCKnBLu3B3RRY]

Well that doesn't sound like a fun FC :/

I'm kinda against this high level of hierarchy in FCs anyway. Who pays a sub to BE a sub?

well the hierarchy of ranks isn't the issue. it's just too difficult to get in contact with a player that is rarely active. no way to leave them a message or anything. can't even send a PM through the forums here. in a situation like mine, the only shred of hope is to already have that person in your friends list.

i hope he isn't avoiding you.

i don't think he's purposely avoiding me. just not paying attention.

Have you asked the other members how they got their money back? or how they were able to contact him? The macro idea sounds good.

at the time the other left our leader was somewhat more active and easier to contact. but i have tried contacting some of the former members. i was only able to find one. and have sent her a letter just today.

I'd assume that if it went into the FC bank it was a donation. Yeah, it's shitty that it went nowhere, but did you really expect to see that money again?

maybe not in its original from. but yes, in some way, shape, or form... yes.

yeah I agree with this. I mean, to a certain extent when you donate to the FC chest, you are relinquishing any personal claim to that money. HOWEVER, when the FC is no longer functioning, members certainly can ask to be reciprocated. The money was donated with the understanding that it would be used for the FC. Though there is still a tiny hope that ownership could pass lol.

What about asking him to make you leader if he responds to you about the money?

as was already mentioned, i completely understand that he has zero obligation to return the gil. however, it's a HUGE amount of gil for a player like me. i will try to reach our FC leader for the next year if need be. or wait for the leader title pass. lol :-x

either way, gil or no gil... i've no intention of staying in the FC after successfully contacting the leader. i've got zero leadership skills. and could care less about saying anything more then hello, please and thank you when speaking to other people.

I think that idea about changing the MOTD was the best one, but if you don't have permissions and can't mog mail... and don't have any out of game way to contact the player... Yeah, it sounds like you're pretty out of luck, sorry.

If there's anyone else that can change the MOTD you can ask them to do that, or ask officers if they have the leader's contact info.

For future reference, it's always a good idea to get some of the higher ranking people on your Skype contacts list or whatnot.

it's funny, because the only other members that are even slightly active were at one time the most in-active. so you know it's bad when your least active becomes your most active. and neither of those two people have higher permissions then i do.

things like Skype are too difficult for me to learn how to use. T_T ah well, i will have to figure something for the future. as to hopefully never have this happen again.

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in any case, i really appreciate all the responses here today. but it doesn't look like i have any more options then before. so i'll just keep trying to catch either him or someone from his friends list online.

thank you everyone for stopping by and offering your assistance.


P.S. sorry, despite my character gender, i am a guy in real life.

[Risvertasashi]

Doesn't have to be skype specifically. kik, email, old fashioned texting... basically, in any MMO... for anyone that holds some importance or is just a good friend, and you might want to make sure you can contact some day.... don't rely on in game communication methods.

Though I know that doesn't help in hindsight. :/ Hope you can catch him online

[BLaCKnBLu3B3RRY]

Doesn't have to be skype specifically. kik, email, old fashioned texting... basically, in any MMO... for anyone that holds some importance or is just a good friend, and you might want to make sure you can contact some day.... don't rely on in game communication methods.

Though I know that doesn't help in hindsight. :/ Hope you can catch him online

yeah. i follow what you are saying. that is something i will certainly take note of in the future. sorting some alternate means of contact for those certain people is a good idea. just wish i would have actually done that in the first place. lol. oh wells.

anyhow, i appreciate your concern. and thank you once again.