Not to be a dick or anything, but if it is a farm party and the reason for wiping is orbs? Sorry it is not a farm party and I would of left kudos to you for staying though. I use macros as well and I see six orbs up?
Everyone should clear the damn orbs healers, tanks and Dps alike. Only exception to this rule is the chaos baiter and if your going to overcharge,
that person isnt' required but it is still nice.