The day I learned I wasn't meant to lead.

[Joche7566]

I know the feels OP. Everytime I see the message in my FC chat, a pang of pain and guilt is undeniable. "What could I have done differently?" Fact is there's probably nothing you could have done. The way the game is made at the moment does not promote camaraderie in the way XI and a lot of MMOs do. There's simply little to no reason to befriend anyone in this game, and FCs have little purpose other than being a social hub, a side distraction on decorating, and gardening. It is not your fault! And don't give up. This doesn't mean you're not meant to lead. If anything it means you care about your FC and you should lead.