There have been times where I wish I could give everyone in my a commendation, and I often tell those in my party this. "Man, I wish I could give everybody a commendation. It was such a joy playing with you folks."

But since I cannot give everyone in my party a commendation for not only playing well, but for not behaving like a complete tool, I tend to give my commendation to a fellow damage dealer (knowing that tanks and healers get most of the votes, often based on being a tank/ healer rather than their performance). The only times I don't is if the other damage dealer performed poorly or they left before I could give them my vote.