NyarukoW, I think I understand where you're coming from as well as the desire not to be excluded from progression, but here's the thing: no one is excluding you from progressing except for you, clearance checkbox or no.

You don't learn fights by crashing groups aiming for quick completion; you start your own learning party, join someone else's learning party, or recruit FC members or other friends to your effort. No one ever mastered mechanics or had very much fun by lying dead on the floor for the entirety of a fight, which is what happens in extreme primals and Second Coil when you try to run with a veteran party and don't know what's going on.

Rather than worrying about elitism etc., focus on the learning part. You simply cannot PUG end-game content with players who haven't cleared and expect any good result. We've all had to learn at some point.