It has come to my attention, that their is No way to remove someone from following you on the lodestone, to remove your account from the lodestone, or to remove yourself off another players friend list in game.. although you can remove them from your friend list, and Black list them. you will remain on their friend list, they are able to see when you are online, where you are / what you are doing etc. I feel this is Very Stalker friendly.. Players have all these tools at their disposal to stalk and harass others, meanwhile players have no tools to prevent it from happening. Preventive measures such as Being prompted to accept followers on the lodestone, being able to remove them if you don't want them to follow you.. the ability to remove yourself from a in game players friend list, or make it so that when I remove a player from my friend list, I will be automatically removed from theirs.