I am so glad this was brought up, I was about to make a thread about treatment of new players due to something that had happened to a friend of mine who just started.
Some older players are just rude and have little patience for new people in this game, which honestly is sad. I've actually gone into dungeons with new people and they say: "Oh I'll just skip the SC's cuz the last group got mad at me for not skipping". Why are people making others feel guilty and as if they are doing wrong for wanting to play a game?!
But it goes beyond this, some players are not only rude to new players other vet players as well. There is a huge entitlement issue in this game. Some feel they should get what they want when they want and how they want, if people go against that (not wanting to skip CS's not, wanting to do speed runs etc) they they are the one in the wrong and the bad person automatically. A mmo is about working together for a common goal and helping one another. Not treating people like crap to get what one person wants and be treated badly, cussed at, kicked from.
As I said at first, while it doesn't directly meet the watching cutscene/afk... it does hit on some older players treatment of new players:
I had a friend start a few days ago, she had seen me playing in my streams so went and got the game as well. She's only been playing maybe 4 days, just hit her early 20's and is very dependent and wants to learn the game, not coddled thought it and hand held. Makes me proud of her!
But she told me a story that she went into a low level dungeon to practice on her gladiator more, got a high level person in her party. And went on to tell me that this other player seemed really frustrated with them because 'they sucked' and he kept getting mad at them due to it. Now she did say he was trying to help some, and gave some advice (which was nice to at least do that), but then went on to tell her flat out that that she shouldn't be a gladiator and should have chosen a different job to play.
While I am glad that the person did try to give advice... what upsets me about this is the fact a vet player is going into a low level dungeon and telling people they are bad at what they do. If you go into a low level dungeon then people should expect to get paired up with new players. No they won't be perfect, no they might not know what they are doing; that is because they are learning!
But to get mad at new players, tell them they suck and that they should play a different job is rude in my opinion. I told her to keep on playing gladiator for now, practice makes perfect and not let someone tell her shes bad at it, especially this early on. I ran with her, no she not level 50 elite tanker, but she wasn't bad! She takes advice and she learns, which is the point of low level!
If players don't want to deal with low level players, give them a chance and be polite, not frustrate them into thinking they made a wrong choice and are bad at what they do, then don't do low level roulette/Dungeons.
If players want to do speed runs, or not watch cut scenes, then don't use duty finder, make a party or use party finder to set up a party with your own rules.
But going into duty finder and put people down and kick people for stupid reason, like watching a cutscene or expecting everyone to play the exact way they want and being rude if they don't is wrong.