I have noticed that there is a large vocal portion of players that complain and gripe about aspects in the game and how they are no longer interested in the game because they themselves aren't taking the responsibility for the corner they put themselves into.

Nobody is forcing you to log in every day to cap soldiery, Tues grind coil,etc but yourself. This is an mmo, all the content will be there tomorrow and the day after...so you cannot blame se for your ocd style obsession to play the game every day to lose the fun of doing things at a casual pace.