Hey guys!

So. I kinda hit like a dead end with my crafting melds, i capped craftmanship/control materia on every piece of gear and am completely overmelded, got artisan spectacles but still lack about 20 points of craftmanship and control to even try the 3* recipes.
Yeah, I know I'm quite late starting that, but started crafting pretty late.
Can someone tell me what I did wrong or what I'd have to do to reach those minimums?