Yawn.
As someone who has worked a full time job, a full time graduate student, and a part time husband (all at the same time), I have managed to clear all the content in the game, I have zero sympathies for your time management issues/learning disability.

If you can't find a group of people you can get along with that can help you catch up, your the problem. It is that simple.

That said.
To catch up all you need to do is farm hunts / run roulette's / run ST until your full 110. You don't even need a group.