It sounds like this issue is coming from the incident you had with your FC. My recommendation is to switch servers to Brynhildr, a smaller server, and join an FC where we are all adults that treat each other like family, my girlfriend and I run it and nothing immature goes on. The problem with MMOs is different people from all over the country/world, different views on life, opinions, we will not always agree. We can always work through those situations feeling better about ourselves, helping each other in the end and laughing about it later. At the end of the day, we are all just trying to have fun, get our moneys worth. If no server switch, don't worry about that player, he/s might be in the exact same boat, their only "winning" by getting the better of you. Walk away with a smile and see the good in the game more importantly, see the good in yourself, find something better. If you decide to switch servers, send me mail. Good luck! P.S I really do hope to see you on Brynhildr!