Yeah, ive contacted SEs Support on their website without an answer after 4 days now.
I just cant understand what causes this Timed out error. I could log in after the first time i got it working, but when I restarted my PC yesterday, this issues emerged again, but turning my programs off has not helped.

Makes me wonder if i should just cancel my account and resume WoW. I really like FFXIV even after just 3 weeks of being a subscriber, but all these errors and issues I just dont feel its worth it sadly.