This is weird. After 2 days messing around. I have even put everything regarding FFXIV to be allowed on Bitdefender 2011 Firewall etc.

Then I tried starting the game with AV and Firewall from Bitdefender offline, Advanced Systemcare 4 and Malware Fighter off as well. And finally im seeing the login screen. The I exit that window, and I put every program back online, and the Timed out problem is no more. At least for now