Your term for helping isnt in the slightest by definition of help, this is a act of good will of their OWN CHOICE, not forced against their will, also that excuse is such a bad one, name a mmo where thats actually occured, mmos have died cos its made badly not due to people unable to down content. Thats just grasping for straws at this point, players have the choice to get on with content and not help, theres nothing wrong with this, but to put them through guilt trips due to you own lack of power is just disgusting, this is actual bad attitude.