Maybe I am new: is this not cheating in dungeon?

[Lisieta]

Hi all, I am still quite new to the game so maybe someone could kindly enlighten me...

I was running Sastasha this afternoon as DPS, and our healer (a lv34 conjurer) literally just followed us all the way through doing nothing, stood still during battles without even bothering drawing his weapon. And our Arcanist ended up doing all the healing.

So Arcanist complained and I questioned him twice, no response, continue running with us doing nothing. So before the 2nd boss I said we should kick, but the system wouldn't allow me to initiate vote as in an earlier run I initiated it for a disconnected player and that's less than 4 hours ago.

So we got into 2nd boss fight as tank just ran in and pulled. During the boss fight the conjurer only cured himself when attacked by adds and throw in a couple of stones on boss towards the end. Didn't do any healing at all on other members.

So as we move towards the final boss I said someone else should initiate the vote to dismiss as I cannot (since we are pretty much a 3-man party anyway), then all of a sudden I got dismissed!

I had never been dismissed before so understandably I am quite upset. And I really don't understand what had happened, as I thought the conjurer was cheating. But then I haven't done many dungeons - has this become an acceptable behaviour now and we are supposed to just put up with it? And why did I get dismissed - I didn't use any aggressive language at all. Am I disrupting the run more than the conjurer? Very confused...