I think it was around patch 2.2 that they increased the exp you get from dungeons, so it IS a viable option to level up. I suggest what many people here suggest, speak up if you want to do a full clear. I avoid all roulettes for that option, I hate full clears and only do low lvls if I'm forced to. If you want to go the cutscene route, make a party, stop complaining. They have party finder for that reason. If you can't get any of that, watch the cutscenes in the Inns, apparently people don't know about it, but there's a book there you can watch almost all the previous cutscenes. Check it out. There are always going to be mean people in and out of the game, deal with it, don't let it get you down, and enjoy your game the way you want to enjoy it. Sometimes you'll be forced into a different pace, deal with it. When you can get a crew that wants to run at your pace, the other person will have to deal with it too, it's part of the game that has you playing with millions of other people.