Things CAN influence not MAKE us do things lol! Let me give a example. Say you are playing Final Fantasy(which you are) and you make a mistake(which we ALL make mistakes) and cause a wipe!! And one person(guy or girl) curses you out and gets mad cause y’all was soooooo close. You CAN feel influenced to curse back, get angry or quit…… OR say “I’m sorry I’m trying my best. Is their something I’m doing wrong?” . Like that