No, YOU'RE the one assuming people are bad. With things like "they might learn slower than you" That's basically saying that some people aren't as good. I do NOT think that way. I feel that everyone, outside of obvious exceptions(mental conditions and many other things) CAN do better than they do most of the time. We're all humans, and while we do have differences, we all have pretty much the same capacity to learn. I say what I do about not wanting to put in the effort because I SEE it. People literally say it's "too much like a job" "it's too much work" "I don't want to work that hard, it's just a game"
So, no, YOUR view is the one putting people down and assuming they're bad automatically. I assume they CAN do better, and if they don't within a reasonable amount of attempts, they don't want to try. If you see a mechanic is killing you. Or if someone points it out to you. You should not be dying to that same mechanic 10, 20 or more attempts after that. And, yet, people are.
So, again, Almost everyone has the ability to learn quickly and the like. They choose not to. And if they choose not to put in the effort for a given piece of content, they should not be there. Nor should they expect drastic nerfs either.
One last thing, a big part of learning is KNOWING your weaknesses in that regard and compensating for them. Many people don't even look at that however, they feel they're plenty good enough. Good players rarely think they are good enough. They always feel they could be doing better, doing more and such. There's even a study about this mentality. It may just be a study, but it fits really well.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning...3Kruger_effect
Indeed. I know someone on my server who cannot use one side of his body. So he can only play with one hand. Yet he does better than many others who CAN use both hands, because he puts for the effort to play well and compensate for it.